Aishwarya Chandra
The Indian Life & Relationship Coach
Are these the questions you ask yourself?
What if my family doesn’t approve of my choices?
What if they fight back?
Why don’t they hear me?
Why do I also have to be loud to be heard?
I am always being accused of creating problems, is it my fault?
Will I regret this?
What if they choose to disown me?
Do my kids hate me? Am I being too restrictive? How can I speak to them without a scream fest commencing?
Coaching Technique
While I am not a therapist, I am a Certified Life Coach who will not shy away from diving deeper into your childhood to uncover the past as there are sometimes patterns we need to identify. We will then focus on the here and now, to bring a greater Inner Peace.
Why a Cultural Life Coach?
Our culture is so immersed into keeping a family as one unit that many times we do not realize the toxicity that we bury and in the process transfer to the next generation.
Acceptance in our culture is taught as accepting toxic behavior and sweeping it under the rug while “respecting elders”. That needs to stop! Acceptance, in my opinion, is loving people enough to value their differences and preferences and not try to enforce our opinions on them. Sometimes taking the time to give them the space they need to grow, make mistakes, and learn while always being there to pick them up when they stumble could be what acceptance could also look like.
I can help you overcome this owing to my personal experiences and my education as a Life Coach.
Life and/or Relationship coaching is for you if
You’re a couple (married, engaged, dating or living together) and you feel communication breaking down or the magic disappearing.
You have issues communicating with Parents, Siblings or even your in-laws. Maybe you feel they are overbearing or asking much off you and it maybe taking a toll on your marriage?
Are Parents who struggle to communicate and understand your First Gen children (you may have moved to the US and are Immigrant Parents). It could be that you have expectations that you feel your kids don’t meet or struggle to understand. This is something we can work through by understanding our kids are individuals with their own goals and they need the freedom you never had to do their best.
You are going through a tough time and have asked yourself how other people would react to your news instead of asking yourself or having people ask you how you are doing.